Behind Closed Doors

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I’m not very good at telling stories, but I’d like to put this out there… :)

I’m moving in with Triplethreat aka Sir for the summer between semesters. We’ve been seeing each other for almost two years, and we’re going to spend a few months in the same city, in the same apartment. I’m a happy camper, and very in love.

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I haven’t been posting or even catching up on my dash in ages, but I have to post this right now cuz who the hell else will I tell?

TripleThreat is texting me from afar and making me so worked up and wet… I’m alone in my office at school and I wish he would just command me to touch myself, but at the same time I’m so nervous about someone else showing up (it’s a shared space). Sigh. Long distance kink problems.

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i can safeword whenever i want. period.

geekydominant:

sunflwrprincess:

if i’m in the middle of receiving a punishment and i have to pee, i am allowed to safeword.

if my positioning is uncomfortable and keeping me from enjoying our play, i am allowed to safeword.

if you are about to punish me and i think we need to talk a little more about the supposed severity of my missteps, i am allowed to safeword.

if you just started punishing me and i realized i am not in the mental state to receive it right now, i am allowed to safeword.

if i’m not sure how to articulate my reasoning, or there isn’t really a solid reason that i want our session to stop, i am still allowed to safeword there is literally no instance in which i am not allowed to use the safeword we have agreed upon for my comfort and safety.

i will not apologize. i will not be made to feel bad. this is why there is a safeword to begin with and if creeps like dreamiedaddy wanna tell you otherwise they should be avoided at all costs bc they are not safe for you they do not have your best interests in mind they are abusers who have no business taking part in power-exchange relationship dynamics. period.

A safe word is supposed to be your ultimate way to get out of any situation with your partner: whether you’re uncomfortable, experiencing bad pain, feeling scared, or any other of a thousand reasons that make you feel the need and desire to stop the scene.

If someone tells you that you don’t need a safe word, that your safe word will be ignored for a night, or that you can only use your safe word in certain situations, you need to avoid that person at all costs.

If someone you’ve played with or your long-term partner has ignored your safe word at any point, you need to seriously reconsider your relationship with said person, because they cannot and should not be trusted.

You’re always allowed to use your safe word. You should never be made to feel guilty for using it. Proper use of safe words demonstrate trust, love, respect, and safety. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!

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nosalvationintime:

PSA: Please teach your partner how to choke properly if you’re into that kind of thing.

The point of choking is not to crush the oesophagus, but rather to put light pressure on the carotid arteries to stop oxygen circulation to the brain. So tops, please create a V shape with your hands, which allows the fleshy part of the palm to rest against the oesophagus without causing any obstruction to the windpipe, and press down on the arteries. It’s not about stopping your bottom from breathing completely, but making them lightheaded.

This is very, very important!

Also, please don’t attempt any choking whilst under the influence because your better judgement may be impaired and you can cause some serious damage.

Choking is serious business, if you’re going to engage in it, please be sure to practise it properly and in a safe manner!

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